Lady seeking fuck

My husband and I moved to OC two years ago so that he could be closer to his family and mainly so that his dad could teach him the trade of Mortgage Broker. We both have learned this new trade and we are both very homesick for SF (he is 33 I'm 31). We are both artist (he sculpts/paints, I write and paint, and play piano). and ever since we moved to OC we have completely stopped working on our. I want to go back to SF State and get my masters in Creative writing/english. And we both feel the city is such an inspirational place, we feel it is our home. The problem is that we are planning to start a family in the next 2 years, and I don't know if SF is the right place to raise a family. we be comfortable? Also, we have both been sober for 3 years. I wonder if we move to SF we find that "being artistic" was only part of our youth and drinking years, and now that we are older and sober, we are just not those people anymore. I am so confused. I don't want to make this move and be totally bummed to find that we are just not those people anymore. Asides from everything, we are both very in and we have a lovely relationship. We just feel like our life isbeing wasted away in plain OC where we don't fit in. We have checked out other places, temecula, ventura, oceanside, even co, but everything just makes us feel homesick for sf. some words from the older and wiser be much appreaciated.