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you two are arriving at It sorta seems like you are talking out both sides of your mouth: you would be "thrilled" to him but you North billerica MA seem to have serious anxiety about the nuts and bolts of the situation. This forum is an awesome place to get some insight on that so I'll cut you some slack : ) Look, you've been together 10 years, there shouldn't be anything you can't discuss at this point. You should know how to ask him to do something. He should know what "consideration" looks like to you. And you should both know to pick your battles and just let the other person be their own selves. I think you should take roommates out of your equation. You two have enough going on without adding other people to the mix. What if you move in together and all you do is fight (or hump) Maybe revisit the roommate factor after you've been living together harmoniously for a year. My husband and I lived with roommates before we were married, I do think it was awkward for them when we fought, no matter how discrete we were. I also don't think he should be on the hook for 50% of the mortgage. More like 30-40%. You're the one building equity, not him. So if you can't afford the mortgage at just 60-70% then I suggest getting only roommates and keeping things as a business deal. I think all the other bills should be which I would just boil down to taking turn paying The only successfully clean places I lived, with roommates involved, were places where the communication was out in the open and there was a schedule every one knew about.